拿捏
ná​nie

to grasp

拿捏 ná​nie
to grasp
To grasp or control; to handle or measure the scale or propriety of a situation.
to make things difficult
To deliberately create difficulties for someone; to put pressure on or threaten someone by taking advantage of their weaknesses.
to be coy
To be affectedly bashful or coy; to act in a stiff or unnatural way.