huáng​shàng​bù​jí​tài​jiàn​jí

observers are more anxious than the party involved

皇上不急太监急 皇上不急太監急 huáng​shàng​bù​jí​tài​jiàn​jí
observers are more anxious than the party involved
Literally "the emperor is not worried, but his eunuchs are"; used to describe a situation where bystanders or observers are more concerned or impatient about a matter than the person directly affected.