shàng​bù​dé​tái​pán

lacking social grace

  1. shàng particleverb
    to go up
    to climb; to board a vehicle; to mount; to go to a place
  2. [potential]
    Used after a verb or adjective to express that something is impossible or not permitted.
  3. social stage
    a high-society occasion or formal public setting, often used in the context of whether someone's manners are suitable for such a venue