- 丑媳妇总得要见公婆 chǒuxífuzǒngděiyàojiàngōngpó to face the musicliterally meaning an ugly daughter-in-law must eventually meet her parents-in-law; it describes a situation that cannot be avoided or hidden forever and must eventually be faced and dealt with
- 丑媳妇早晚也得见公婆 chǒuxífuzǎowǎnyěděijiàngōngpó it's not something you can avoid foreverliterally meaning the ugly daughter-in-law must eventually meet her parents-in-law; it means that no matter how much you want to hide a weakness or a problem, you will eventually have to face the truth or the people concerned