gōng​jìng​bù​rú​cóng​mìng

better to obey than to be polite

  1. respectful; respect
    acting with politeness and deference, especially toward elders or guests
  2. 不如 bù​rú adverbverb
    it would be better to
    used to indicate a preferred alternative, often in the pattern 与其 yǔ​qí ... bù rú
  3. to obey
    to obey an order; to comply with a request or command