- 以德报怨 yǐdébàoyuàn to return good for evilto return good for evil; to requite evil with kindness rather than resentment
- 以直报怨 yǐzhíbàoyuàn to meet resentment with fairnessTo handle a grudge or treat those who have wronged you with impartiality and justice; a concept from the [[论语|論語|lun2 yu3]], contrasted with responding with kindness or further hatred.
- 以直报怨,以德报德 yǐzhíbàoyuànyǐdébàodé to repay kindness with kindness and enmity with justiceAn idiom from the Analects of Confucius suggesting that one should return good for good, but respond to resentment or injury with uprightness and fairness rather than revenge or excessive kindness.