- 吃人家嘴软,拿人家手短 chīrénjiazuǐruǎnnárénjiashǒuduǎn beholden to othersone who accepts gifts or favors from others is loath to criticize them or refuse their requests; literally: the mouth is soft after eating someone else's food and the hand is short after taking someone else's things
- 吃人家的嘴软,拿人家的手短 chīrénjiadezuǐruǎnnárénjiadeshǒuduǎn beholden to othersBeing unable to speak out or act against someone because you have accepted their gifts or favors; literally "the mouth that has been fed by others is soft, and the hand that has received from others is short"