zhuó​yīng​zhuó​zú

respect or contempt depend on oneself

濯缨濯足 濯纓濯足 zhuó​yīng​zhuó​zú
respect or contempt depend on oneself
The idea that whether one is received with honor or disdain is determined by one's own conduct and character; self-invited respect or insult
to rise above the world
To transcend or stay aloof from the common concerns and trivialities of secular society