过节儿 guòjiér grudge Definitions Defs Origin Strokes Stroke Words Sentences Sents guòjiér grudge · etiquette 过节 過節 guòjié grudge a grievance, misunderstanding, or hard feelings between people儿 兒 r particleaffix [erhua suffix] A suffix attached to a word to form a retroflex ending, often indicating a small size, a sense of familiarity, or turning a word into a noun.guòjiér after a festival 过节 過節 guòjié after a festival the time after a holiday or festival is over儿 兒 r particleaffix [erhua suffix] A suffix attached to a word to form a retroflex ending, often indicating a small size, a sense of familiarity, or turning a word into a noun.