- 不敢高攀 bùgǎngāopān not dare to aspire to a social connection with someone of higher status(humble) literally "not dare to pull oneself up high"; I cannot presume on your acquaintance or friendship
- 高攀不上 gāopānbùshàng to be unworthy to associate withUnable to associate with or marry into a family of higher social standing due to one's own lower status or lack of ability