hóu​mén​rú​hǎi

the mansions of the nobility are as deep as the sea

Senses

侯门如海/ 侯門如海 hóu​mén​rú​hǎi the mansions of the nobility are as deep as the sea

Used to describe a high official's residence or a powerful family's house as being so heavily guarded and strictly controlled that common people cannot enter; also used to describe former lovers or friends being separated by social status and unable to meet.

References

variant 侯门如海/侯門如海 侯门似海/侯門似海
see 侯门如海/侯門如海 侯门一入深如海/侯門一入深如海