哑巴吃黄莲/ 啞巴吃黃蓮 yǎbachīhuánglián to suffer in silence
To have no choice but to suffer in silence or be unable to complain about one's hardships; literally, a mute person eating the bitter herb 黄连 huánglián. Often followed by 有苦说不出 yǒukǔshuōbuchū.