dǎ​yī​bā​zhang​gěi​gè​tián​zǎo

carrot and stick

Senses

打一巴掌,给个甜枣/ 打一巴掌,給個甜棗 dǎ​yī​bā​zhang​gěi​gè​tián​zǎo carrot and stick

literally "to give a slap then offer a sweet date"; to treat someone harshly and then offer a small favor or consolation as a way to manage them

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