shòu​rén​yǐ​bǐng

to give someone a hold on oneself

Senses

授人以柄 shòu​rén​yǐ​bǐng to give someone a hold on oneself

To give someone an excuse or opportunity to criticize or control you; to hand over power or leverage to another to one's own disadvantage.

References

synonym 授人以柄/授人以柄 倒持泰阿/倒持泰阿