yóu​bu​de

to be beyond control

Senses

由不得 yóu​bu​de (also yóu​bù​dé) to be beyond control

To be out of one's hands or beyond one's control; to not allow someone to have their way.

由不得 yóu​bu​de (also yóu​bù​dé) cannot help

Used as an adverb to mean cannot help but or involuntarily.

References

synonym 由不得/由不得 不由得/不由得
same_as 不由人/不由人 由不得/由不得