lǐ​wài​bù​shì​rén

to be blamed by everyone

Senses

里外不是人/ 裡外不是人 lǐ​wài​bù​shì​rén (also lǐ​wài​bú​shì​rén) to be blamed by everyone

To be blamed or resented by all parties involved despite one's efforts; to find oneself in a situation where no matter what one does, everyone is dissatisfied.

References

same_as 猪八戒照镜子/豬八戒照鏡子 里外不是人/裡外不是人