软磨硬泡 / 軟磨硬泡

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wheedle

to use a combination of soft and hard tactics to get what one wants; to coax and pester someone persistently

经过他半天的软磨硬泡，老板终于同意给他涨工资了。

created sense Mar 4, 2026, 02:25 AM