sān​cóng​sì​dé

three subjections and four virtues

  1. three obediences
    The traditional Confucian moral standards for women, specifically requiring obedience to one's father before marriage, to one's husband after marriage, and to one's son in widowhood.
  2. four female virtues
    (literary) four virtues expected of women in traditional Chinese culture, consisting of morality, proper speech, modest appearance, and diligent housework