- 背着手 bèizheshǒu hands behind backwith one's hands clasped behind one's back
- 背着抱着一般重 bēizhebàozheyībānzhòng equally heavyLiterally meaning that the weight is the same whether one carries it on one's back or in one's arms; figuratively, it implies that different choices or methods lead to the same unavoidable burden or cost.