To turn down a request or kind offer only to be forced to comply later under pressure or punishment; literally means to refuse a toast only to be forced to drink a penalty cup.

A two-part allegorical saying where the first part is "Pan Jinlian offers a toast to Wu Song" and the unstated second part is [[不怀好意|不懷好意|bu4 huai2 hao3 yi4]], meaning to harbor ill intentions; used to describe someone acting respectful while secretly hiding a malicious motive.