酒不醉人人自醉，色不迷人人自迷
jiǔ​bù​zuì​rén​rén​zì​zuì, sè​bù​mí​rén​rén​zì​mí

self-indulgence

酒不醉人人自醉，色不迷人人自迷 jiǔ​bù​zuì​rén​rén​zì​zuì, sè​bù​mí​rén​rén​zì​mí
self-indulgence
Wine doesn't make one drunk, but one makes oneself drunk; lust doesn't overpower one, but one surrenders oneself to it.

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